Questioning racism and bigotry

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Why is it that some people find it hard to have a respectful conversation with others who say harmful or offensive things? Taking a calm and thoughtful approach, especially with young people, might actually help those people think more deeply about their words. It could lead them to understand why what they’re saying is so hurtful.

Asking meaningful, challenging questions can stop someone in their tracks. It might even make them feel guilt or shame — emotions that could spark curiosity and reflection about how their words affect others. Sometimes racism comes from a place of ignorance, and simply learning about its origins can make a meaningful difference.

Let’s look at some examples and questions that can help people reflect:

The ‘Heil Hitler’ gesture

• What is the ‘Heil Hitler’ gesture, and when was it used in history?
• Where did you first hear about it or see it, and what do you think it means?
• Do you think this gesture affects Jewish people? What about others?
  
  

Holocaust jokes

• What is the joke, and why is it supposed to be funny?
• What is the history of the holocaust? What does the word ‘holocaust’ mean?
• What effect do these kinds of jokes have on others?
  
  

Saying “That’s so gay”

• What do you think people mean when they say this?
• How might it affect LGBTQ+ people?
• Do you think this language affects other people’s trust in you?
  
  

Using the F-slur

• How do you think this slur impacts LGBTQ+ people?
• What effect does it have on others who hear it?
• How might this kind of language shape our culture?
  
  

Misgendering and deadnaming

• Is there a reason why it’s difficult to use the right pronouns?
• How would you feel if someone ignored or rejected something important about who you are?
• What happens to transgender and non-binary people when people use the wrong pronouns for them or call them by their deadnames?
  
  

Using the R-slur, or saying “That’s lame”

• Is there another word you could use to better express what you mean?
• What does the use of this word/phrase say about how people with disabilities are treated in our community?
• Do you personally believe that disability equates with something bad?
  
  

By asking questions like these, we can help people better understand the power of their words, how they affect others, and how we can help create a kinder and more inclusive community.

Anyla McDonald aspires to become a poet, short story writer, and essayist speaking about racism against Black people, current world problems, and hot topics. When she writes, she does it with purpose and passion. She feels destined to touch others with her words, and wants to be known as someone who takes a stand and impacts lives with her writing.

Anyla offers consulting services to Black student unions, student governments, school boards, superintendents, parents, and teachers facing social challenges within their institutions. She assists them in developing and implementing policies and activities aimed at preventing discrimination.